No matter what you think, to be a great flirt is not necessary to be devastatingly attractive, rich, or smooth. Get ready to demystify the free flirting tips. You are sure to be the best flirt in town.
#1: Be honest If you're going to flirt, you need to be real about it. Anyone can spot a fake a mile away. Never pretend to be something you are not. This is especially true if you would like to see them again. If you lie about your age, your kids, your family or whatever there is a chance that when they find out they do not want to take things any further because of the lack of trust. Begin in a situation you are most comfortable with. Really mean what you are saying and your results will be well worth the effort.
#2: Feel good about yourself Being positive is contagious. Feel good about yourself, about what you wear, about your hair and he/she will feel good about you.
#3: Smile A smile is the simplest form of flattery. It shows that you are genuinely interested in the other person, and for that one single moment he/she is the only thing on your mind.
#4: Have a conversation starter ready It is no good approaching a person if you do not know what you are going to start the conversation off with. You could start with a funny pickup line or you could simply start with your name, but remember to back it up. He/she might be just as nervous as you.
#5: Get Eye Contact How do you make the object of your affection weak in the knees? Hold that meaningful gaze for just a few seconds longer than normal. Let your flirt know you are trying to catch his eye then when you hold her/his gaze give a gentle smile and let your eyes drop to the floor. They will not feel intimidated and he/she will know that you are interested.
#6: Be Interested In Them Want to know if they are worthy of your undivided attention? Find out more by asking them open-ended questions about themselves. Show off your flirting skills by showing them you are actually listening to what they are saying.
#7: Boost his/her ego A little flattery never hurt anybody. People have always used flattery on each other to get what they want. This is one of the best ways of flirting. Boost a persons ego and you will have him/her drinking water from your hand. If he/she has gorgeous eyes, great hair or anything else you notice tell them. We like to be complimented. Flattery gets you everywhere.
#8: Be interested Ask him/her lots of open-ended questions. Ask them for their interests, what they do for a living etc. You may find that you have a lot in common other then physical attraction.
#9: Make the first move A lot of people find it attractive when they are approached and find it easier and more relaxing to talk openly then when they have to make the first move.
#10: And finally… Only give out your real phone number if you decide to take things further.
Bonus Tip: Don't forget to show your appreciation for the person spending time with you. Always thank the person you are with, and let them know if you had a good time with them. A little politeness goes a long way to making you the next catch of the day.
